Friday, March 25, 2011

Vince Lombardi on Victory

     "I firmly believe that any man's finest hour, the greatest fulfillment of all he holds dear, is that moment when he has worked his heart out in a good cause and lies exhausted on the field of battle..VICTORIOUS."
-- Coach Vince Lombardi
June 11, 1913 - September 3, 1970
   While I was sitting around with friends watching the end of the Super Bowl, with the Green Bay Packers finishing off my favorite team the Pittsburgh Steelers,  I was reminded of this quote.  It has been one of my favorites for a very long time and I shared it with my friends.  Then as we were driving home listening to all the post-game hoopla on the Sirius XM NFL Radio station, Boomer Esiason (I'm pretty sure it was Boomer) whipped out this quote to end his show.  Man, it gave me chills.
    As coaches, business people and entrepreneurs we go out into the "field of battle" every day.  While that may seem a bit dramatic, it is what we do.  We plan, set goals, evaluate the competition and strategize. With our resolution to SUCCEED we then put our hearts and energy into our projects and businesses, enlisting team members, friends, family members and energizing them with our dreams and visions.  With their help and hard work we set out to battle and claim our victory.
    Whether your starting a new business, have an existing business, a team or working on an important marketing campaign this all applies.  Just think what it feels like, you've quit your job to start a new business that your passionate about, but unsure how it's going to go.  You maybe enlist a partner or two or find a mentor who shares your vision.  You go to work after putting your plan together, every one's working hard, you have some setbacks and some doubts, still everyone has a goal and is grinding it out.  Now your closer to launching say, your new online business or marketing campaign that you've spent countless hours working and reworking until your deadline is now approaching.  Your nervous, tired, excited and just hoping you get more than a couple dozen clicks or orders.  The work is all done...you cross your fingers...press the "Publish Now" Button (or equivalent) and with nervous enthusiasm you wait.   Suddenly the click count starts jumping up, people are tweeting, blogging and and sharing all the information, buying your products and it's blowing away even your best case scenarios!  You take a deep breath wondering if you had enough to keep it up if it didn't work, but then you jump up start hugging everyone, high fiving, do the goal dance and run outside and shout "YA BABY, WE (I) DID IT"  What an exhilarating feeling.  VICTORY!

     Whatever it is you do, always remember to achieve sustainable success it does take hard work and enthusiasm.   Always have a plan and don't be afraid to enlist people who can help you with the knowledge or expertise to do the things you don't know or have the time for.  
Recruit Like-minded partners
Share your dreams and goals with optimistic family members and friends
Find Mentors
Use Coaches to coach in the areas you or your team needs help with
Keep Grinding, Evaluating your Strategies, Make appropriate changes and always expect VICTORY!
Don't forget to reward yourself or your team.  There's nothing like sharing the thrill of victory

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Coach John Wooden on Fear of Failure

Today's Coach's Quote

    "Don't permit the fear of failure to prevent effort.  We are all imperfect and will fail on occasion, but fear of failure is the greatest failure of all."

-- Coach John Wooden
October 14, 1910 – June 4, 2010
Coach John Wooden
My All-Time Favorite Coach
 Printable and interactive versions of Coach Wooden's
"Pyramid of Success"

Probably my most favorite coach's book...not just about basketball and sports but about success in life as well.


Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Wayne Gretzky on taking your shot



"You miss 100% of the shots you never take"

- Wayne Gretzky
Hockey Great and Coach

With this quote in mind and the encouragement of family and friends I am taking my shot.  Creating this blog with the ultimate goal of building a Sales and Success Coaching following while making a positive difference in people's lives and businesses.  I have been fortunate to have been able to overcome obstacles  in both my personal and professional lives creating, 10's of millions of dollars in sales of products, services and real estate over the last 40 years.  However, with all that success I am most proud of my role as husband, dad and friend.

I have been lucky to have been mentored and "coached" by many people along the way, and have found for myself some of the best motivational, inspiration and insightful information comes from the quotes and stories of successful people and coaches.   I love the sports coaches being an athlete and coach, with their motivational and sometimes quirky ways of saying things that don't just apply to sports but to real life as well.  But not all coaches are sports coaches, take for instance Abraham Lincoln, he coached the Union vs. the Confederacy in the U.S. Civil War, didn't he?  Or Winston Churchill, who coached the
British vs. the  German and Axis forces in WWII.  They were incredible coaches with awesome stories and great quotes.

Thank you for taking the time to read this introduction and the blog, please leave comments, quotes or ideas to share with everyone, and forward this blog along to anyone you know who will enjoy it.
Now on with the show............

"You miss 100% of the shots you never take"

What is it that makes us not take that shot?  Whether it's in a game, at a sales meeting or when an incredible, maybe even seemingly impossible opportunity comes our way?  Well, the #1 answer to that is usually the "fear of failure"!  So what are we afraid of?  What family or friends might say?  What your teammates might think, what will the coach say?  That the buyer will say no?  The fear of rejection is the #1 reason people say they would never go into sales.   Successful people embrace failure as a step towards winning and a lesson in what didn't work.  They know that they will not make 100% of the shots they take, but know if they don't take the shot they won't make (reach) the goal.

As coaches sometimes we may put this fear into a player without realizing it.  Have you ever been in or heard the situation where a player is next to the goal or alone under the basket for an easy shot but passes instead?  And everyone is thinking or yelling out "take the shot."  Later you ask the player why they didn't take the shot, many times they say that they were afraid to miss the shot, and when asked why, the response is usually, "I didn't want you to be mad at me for missing the shot."  Encourage your players and salespeople to take the shots, even when they miss the ones the they should have made, if their not out there taking shots they will never score.  

Encourage yourself, your players, partners, friends and family to Go For It - Be Positive
Be Confident
Have a plan or strategy
Get over it (perceived failure) and move on
Failure in sports or business is not fatal, just temporary